I'm married.....

...and it went like this...

I, Jilian , take you, Todd,
to be my lawfully wedded husband,
secure in the knowledge that you will be my constant friend,
my faithful partner in life,
and my one true love.

On this special and holy day,
I affirm to you in the presence of God and these witnesses
my promise to stay by your side as your
faithful wife in sickness and in health,
in joy and in sorrow,
as well as through the good times and the bad.

I promise to love you without reservation,
comfort you in times of distress,
encourage you to achieve all of your goals,
laugh with you and cry with you,
grow with you in mind and spirit,
always be open and honest with you,
and cherish you for as long as we both shall live.

DC UNITED!! ole ole ole ole

United to honor, support Virginia Tech victims

Cool :)

Goin to Costa Rica!!!

Todd got his passport in the mail over the weekend! Nothing like takin things down to the wire :)

I wonder if it's easier to post what's been done for the wedding or what's left to do :) haha. I wish there was more on the 'done' list - but I'm not stressing yet.

5 more days!!

Details

Processing a tragedy of this magnitude is different for everyone. Sometimes I don't want to hear any more details - and other times I feel like I need to know all the details. These writings are graphic and personal - you may not want to read them.

The Washington Post has a narrative of April 16th composed from many many interviews. It's long, but well written. An inside look at what happened in Norris Hall.

This blog was created by a survivor - recounting his experience inside the first classroom attacked. Please keep Gil and his family in prayer as he recovers physically and emotionally.

It's still so unbelievable.

Happy Birthday Fiance :)

Since T is out of town for training this week we started celebrating his birthday Friday night. With the help of my mom's delivery service - I bought T a conversion ping pong top for the pool table. He's been talking about it for months!!


You have to admit - ping pong is fun! Especially when you win ;) I guess I should've been nice and let him win since it is HIS birthday - but nah! Saturday evening after lots of practice he decided it was time to keep score. I won 5 games out of 6. Claiming alcohol hindered his playing we had a rematch on Sunday. I won 2 out of 3. I have a feeling there will be many more laughs and fun stories surrounding the table :) Come over and play sometime!!

I think Todd might want some more practice before he's ready for challengers :)

Turning into my dad :)

Anyone that knows my mother and I, knows that I'm pretty much a carbon copy of her. Last night as I finished preparing my taxes to mail it struck me that some days I have a lot of my dad in me too. I've never before put off doing my taxes - but this year I sent them in on the last day possible. I remember growing up my dad ALWAYS put off his taxes until the last day - then took over the kitchen table with paperwork and forms (this was before the days of turbo tax). I think he loved going to the post office at 11:45pm to be part of the last minute mayhem. Just like how he always put off his Christmas shopping until Christmas Eve :)

Crazy day in Blacksburg

I'm sure you have seen the news. Blacksburg has been the scene of another 'freak' trauma. I'm safe as are my close friends. A state of shock hangs over the town as we try to comprehend what happened today. Stegar's words are so accurate - 'senselessness of such an incomprehensible and heinous act'. Just unbelieveable. How can someone do this?

I Loved Her First

by Heartland:

Look at the two of you dancing that way
Lost in the moment and each others face
So much in love your alone in this place
Like there's nobody else in the world
I was enough for her not long ago
I was her number one
She told me so
And she still means the world to me
Just so you know
So be careful when you hold my girl
Time changes everything
Life must go on
And I'm not gonna stand in your way

But I loved her first and I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep
And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But it still hard to give her away
I loved her first

How could that beautiful women with you
Be the same freckle face kid that I knew
The one that I read all those fairy tales to
And tucked into bed all those nights
And I knew the first time I saw you with her
It was only a matter of time

But I loved her first and I held her first
And a place in my heart will always be hers
From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep
And I prayed that she'd find you someday
But its still hard to give her away
I loved her first

From the first breath she breathed
When she first smiled at me
I knew the love of a father runs deep
Someday you might know what I'm going through
When a miracle smiles up at you
I loved her first


wow - how can it be three years since I said goodbye? conversations are so fresh in my mind - it feels like I just talked to him yesterday. sometimes he's in my dreams, so real. i love those dreams. he's so much a part of me, present in all that I do. i miss you daddy - especially this year.

Sweet Sixteen!

No we're not talking basketball. Nor are we talking 'Watch Out, I'm getting my driver's license!' We're talking 16 days til I become Mrs. Metz :) Which has a little something to do with the lack of blogs. Life has been out of control.... but I'll try to update you soon on:

Wedding Planning
Award Winning Grisman
Bathroom Transformation
Wedding Planning
SML Girls Weekend
Wedding Planning

Happy 1 month Birthday Annabelle!!

Mom and I drove down to Charlotte last month to meet Annabelle! (which just happen to be on her 13th day in the world) Or course she is precious!! It was fun to watch C and J be parents! They were definitely in the swing of things. Here's a couple of pictures.


She's was all decked out to cheer the Hokies on the NCAA tourney!


With her favorite college mascot by her side :)


When she's awake, she's wide eyed and checking out the world.


This picture reminds me so much of my dad. Right now she is favoring J in looks. Check out those lips!! Too Cute!!


Big Stretch - Yawn.


Babies are wonderful! I'm looking forward to fun times with my niece!

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